Cresting the Waves:
A guide to sailing through life on
Relation-Ships
Dane E. Colby
Table of Contents
1.
Author's Bio
2.
Introduction
3.
Ways to View this Book:
Unconscious Guidance
Why so much Shadow?
This Book will Trigger You
Human Beauty/ Human Inadequacy
Criticize and Appreciate
Undervalued Stocks
4.
Serving Your Divine Child
5.
Tools to Build and Maintain Your Ship:
The Life Partnership Questionnaire
A list of Relationship Skills
Amazing Long Distance
Indicate or Be Direct
Valuable Perspectives
Know Your Customers
The Self Pity Ritual
Understanding Values
6.
Relating to Our Wounds:
Twisted Endings
Dance of Sabotage
What Makes Abuse?
Windows into Addiction
Addictive Cycles
Growth Backlashes
Where Loyalties Lie
No Win Intimacy
The Rejection Cycle
Rage at Innocence
Subtle Torture
Feeling Invisible
When More Creates a Feeling of Less
A Rest from Truth
The Pull To Violence
It's all too Much
7.
Sexuality:
Killer Programs
Sex and Pain
No Win of the Slut
Pornography
Honor All of Your Sexual Selves
Times of Giving and Receiving
8.
Support Your Relationships with Growth:
The Intimacy Game
Going into Business for Yourself
The Choice to Have Children
Space and Connection
Playing with Personas
Piercing Personas
Relationship Contracts
A Path of Healing
Birth of a Martyr
Finding Our Saturation Point
Create Safety with Responsibility
Playing Your Edge
Freedom From the Past
Shaking Things Up
Refusing to Receive What we Can't Live Without
Learning to Dance
Reclaiming Our Lost Selves
9.
Dancing With Divinity:
Sword of Choice
Finding Our Soul Mate
Magic and Form
Deconstructing Harry
Seeing Divinity in Our Lover
The Big Relationship
Split Faces of God
The Dance between Love and Shadow
The Love Addiction
Truth is Alive
A Relationship is an Eternity
The Theater of Selves
10.
Seeing and Being Seen by Your Partner:
A Relationship Budget
Bringers of Truth
A Gift to Our Partners
Castrating Our Selves With Contracts
Anger at Men
Relationships as Service
Our Soul Mate
Beautiful Endings
I Love You
Sirens of Perfection
A Healthy Diet
Setting Your Gems
Partner Compatibility
Deposits in the Relationship Account
Appreciations! Appreciations! Appreciations!
Solving Problems vs. Being Present
Changing Perception
What Can You Promise?
Love is like the Sun
Can I Trust You?
The Push/Pull Dance
Specialists in Life
11.
Personal Power:
The Power of Yes!
Your Upper Limit of Success
Raising Your Upper Limit of Success
Wave and Particle Based Manifestation
Increase Your Vision
Consciously Playing the Game
Creating Limitless Possibility
Why We Don't Ask
Cooking Personas
Pacing a Crisis
Awareness is Power
Owning Our Lineage
The Need to Matter
Guilty Dreams
Who Said it Had to be This Way?
A Right To Be Where We Are
Your Relationship Altar
Cultivating Proactive Motivation
Power to Cognize
Accepting What Is
Absolute Values
12.
A Dimension of Love:
A Dimension of Love
Many Kinds of Love
The Art of Love
Grinding to a Halt
Through Resistance
Medicinal Doses
The Reality of Love
The Power of Sex
Learning to Love
13.
Future Visions:
Serving From Within
14.
Growing New Eyes:
Reasons to be Paranoid
Points of View
Perspective and Connection
Perceiving Depth
Threatened by Another's Truth
Secret Conversations
Gems of Complexity
Breaking Deadlock
It's the Eyes that Count
Valuing Full Range
Embracing Life's Sick Sense of Humor
The Cost of Being Open
The Need For Balance
Our Modern Myths
About You?
Love Without Strings
Our Complex Selves
Evolving Dances
Skewed to the Negative
The Call of Beauty
Beauty of Death
The Investment Game
Open and Closed Systems
15.
Personal Stories:
A Tale of Shifting Roles
The Old and the Young
Our Choice of Vision
Manic Depressive
Using Filters
Gifts of Our Mythological Minds
Partnering In Personas
Honor The Gifts Within
Killing off the Ones We Love
Accessing Love
Embracing Obstacles
Bad Moods
Keeper Personas
Resolving Frustration
Our Factory of Creation
Pick Your Problems
Accepting Limitations
16.
Talking with the author
17.
Join the mailing List
18.
Relationship Resources
Cresting the Waves:
A guide to sailing through life on
Relation-Ships
Dane E. Rose