Perspective and Connection
All of us need to feel the connection between our hearts. We need to belong to a “family” that accepts us as we are. Love is the resonance that weaves all of our hearts together. It can also, by lifting out of a dualistic paradigm, honor each of our truths with love: the truth of what we see from where we stand on the great vista of all possibility.
Loneliness is healed not by seeing things in the same way, but in developing the capacity to stand exactly where we are in the truth of what we see, while embracing each other set of eyes. Every set of eyes is bringing a new angle of truth and in doing so adding depth to our concept of who we are as part of the fabric of God, Goddess, All That Is.
Until such time as we have the ability to stand in such an enormous field of paradox in a heart-space of connection, it serves each of us in healing loneliness to connect with the heart wherever we may safely do so without trying to agree on points of view that were never meant to be identical. Part of our gift IS the fact that we each bring DIFFERENT pieces of information to the whole.
Action: Create opportunities for getting to know others that is not about the mind. Attend a Tantric group involving eye gazing, face stroking and shares from the heart and notice how easy it is to connect when there is no awareness of politics, money, sports or anything else but the being that is housed within this unique and beautiful body.
Cresting the Waves:
A guide to sailing through life on
Relation-Ships
Dane E. Rose