About You?
Your world is all about you. Your eyes shape how you see the world. Your choices determine the reality you live in. Your choice to be physical on this planet at this time shapes a great deal of your experience. The scripts and patterns that you hold draw you to certain people and not others. You further shape their behavior towards you by rewarding some of their behavior more than others in ways that let them know what you want. Most will give you what you ask to get the reward.
It has nothing to do with you. How another person sees you is about who they are and their story. One person may see beauty in a criminal, while another sees the tarnish of a saint. It’s not about you. The craziness of this world is not about who you are and is certainly not your fault. The problems of the world are neither caused by you or your obligation to fix.
Action: Be with this paradox and allow it to be light enough to move through. Let both be true. Take responsibility for who you are and what you do, and let others be the way they are because that is how they have chosen to see things.
Cresting the Waves:
A guide to sailing through life on
Relation-Ships
Dane E. Rose