Choice to Have Children
When we choose to have a child we choose to continue the DNA, mental and emotional patterns of our bloodline. Each generation serves as a filter, refining some of the coarse material and transforming it into gold or squandering the work of our ancestry.
We pass on both the gifts of our refining process and the remaining work to be done to our children. They will sift out some of the junk and pass on the rest to theirs.
We bless our children with the gifts of our ancestry and the curse of our limitations. A child entering into our space has chosen to do this work on a Soul level. For the soul it can be quite a shock to discover what that actually means in daily terms.
We are one "self." Our bloodline is another. Humanity is also a "self." When we do our work to own and transform the family shadow we serve the being that is our bloodline on it’s journey to awareness and freedom When we serve our family, we also serve the being that is humanity.
Action: Own your role in transforming the shadow of your bloodline and give the fruits of your labor to your children or to those people near you.
Cresting the Waves:
A guide to sailing through life on
Relation-Ships
Dane E. Rose