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Cresting the Waves:

A guide to sailing through life on

Relation-Ships

Dane E. Rose


1.     About           the Author
2.     Introd                 uction
3.    Ways to View this Book:
Unconsc                 ious Guidance
Why so m               uch Shadow?
This Book                will Trigger You
Human Be               auty/ Human Inadequacy
Absolute                  Gibberish
Criticize and Appreciate
4.     Serving Your Divine Child
5.     Tools to Build Your Ship:
The Life Partnership Questionnaire
A list of Relationship Skills
Amazing Long Distance
Indicate or Be Direct
Know Your Customers      
6.    Relating to Our Wounds:
Twisted Endings
Dance of Sabotage
What Makes Abuse?
Windows into Addiction
Addictive Cycles
Growth Backlashes
Where Loyalties Lie
No Win Intimacy
The Rejection Cycle
Rage at Innocence
Subtle Torture
Feeling Invisible
When More Creates a Feeling of Less
A Rest from Truth
The Pull To Violence
It's all too Much
7.    Sexuality:
Killer Programs
Sex and Pain
No Win of the Slut
Pornography
Honor All of Your Sexual Selves
Times of Giving and Receiving
8.    Support Your Relationships with Growth:
The Intimacy Game
Going into Business for Yourself
The Choice to Have Children
Space and Connection
Playing with Personas
Piercing Personas
Relationship Contracts
A Pathof Healing
Birth of a Martyr
Finding Our Saturation Point
Create Safety with Responsibility
Playing Your Edge
Freedom From the Past
Shaking Things Up
Refusing to Receive What we Can't Live Without
Learning to Dance
Reclaiming Our Lost Selves
9.   Dancing With Divinity:
Sword of Choice
Finding Our Soul Mate
Magic and Form
Deconstructing Harry
Seeing Divinity in Our Lover
The Big Relationship
Split Faces of God
The Dance between Love and Shadow
The Love Addiction
Truth is Alive
A Relationship is an Eternity
The Theater of Selves
10.   Seeing and Being Seen by Your Partner:
A Relationship Budget
Bringers of Truth
A Gift to Our Partners
Castrating Our Selves With Contracts
Anger at Men
Relationships as Service
Finding Our Soul Mate
Beautiful Endings
I Love You
Sirens of Perfection
A Healthy Diet
Setting Your Gems
Partner Compatibility
Deposits in the Relationship Account
Appreciations! Appreciations! Appreciations!
Solving Problems vs. Being Present
Changing Perception
What Can You Promise?
Love is like the Sun
Can I Trust You?
The Push/Pull Dance
Specialists in Life
11.   Personal Power:
The Power of Yes!
Your Upper Limit of Success
Raising Your Upper Limit of Success
Wave and Particle Based Manifestation
Increase      Your Vision
Conscio           usly Playing the Game
Creating             Limitless Possibility
Why W             e Don't Ask
Cookin              g Personas
Pacing                  a Crisis
Awaren           ess is Power
Owning            Our Lineage
The Nee       d to Matter
Guilty Dre      ams
Who Said i         t Had to be This Way?
A Right To  Be Where We Are
Your R             elationship Altar
Cultiva            ting Proactive Motivation
Power              to Cognize
Accept                ing What Is
Absolu              te Values
12.    A Dimension of Love:
A Dime               nsion of Love
Many K               inds of Love
The Art               of Love
Grinding                   to a Halt
Through                  Resistance
Medicin                     al Doses
The Re                 ality of Love
The Po                      wer of Sex
Learnin                      g to Love
13.    Future Visions:
Serving                From Within
14.   Growing New Eyes:
Reason            s to be Paranoid
Points o            f View
Perspec         tive and Connection
Perceivi           ng Depth
Threaten            ed by Another's Truth
Secret Co            nversations
Gems of           Complexity
Breakin         g Deadlock
It's the E          yes that Count
Valuing                 Full Range
Embracing Life's Sick Sense of Humor
The Cos                t of Being Open
Our M               odern Myths
About                        You?
Love Wi                thout Strings
Our Com             plex Selves
Evolving             Dances
Skewe          d to the Negative
The Ca            ll of Beauty
Beauty                 of Death
The Inve             stment Game
Open an           d Closed Systems
15.   Personal Stories:
A Tale o            f Shifting Roles
The Old             and the Young
Our            Choice of Vision
Man                  ic Depressive
Usin           g Filters
Gifts            of Outh Mythological Mind
Partn         ering In Personas
Honor           The Gifts Within
Killing off  the Ones We Love
Accessin                     g Love
Embracing         Obstacles
Bad                Moods
Keeper                        Personas
Resolving              Frustration
Our Facto           ry of Creation
Pick Your             Problems
Accepting            Limitations
16.   Talking with         the author
17.    Join the ma       iling List
18.    Relationshi              p Resources