Beautiful Endings

We are all sacred beings of incredible beauty. It is often a glimpse or taste of that truth that draws us initially to our partners.

We each have a path of growth and development that brings us into contact with others for a time and then takes us away. Some contacts last a lifetime, but many best serve our path as homeopathic medicine, stimulating internal change. They can be indigestible in large doses.

When we become so enamored with the beauty we see and love we feel for a partner that we lose sight of our path, we may hang on to people in our life longer than serves our path or theirs. When this happens we will instinctively obscure our vision of their essence with their human limitations until our distaste and disgust motivates the necessary change or ending.

Have you noticed how after you end with someone after a time they seem beautiful again? Do not go back just because something is beautiful. Be willing to part with someone seeing the true beauty and magnificence in who they are. By giving  yourself permission to move away from something beautiful to follow your path, you save yourself the pain of focusing on  unnecessary ugliness and can allow relationships to wax and wane in a state of grace.

Action: Honor your path when it takes you away from others even when there is nothing wrong. See them in their beauty even as you say goodbye

Contents

Cresting the Waves:

A guide to sailing through life on

Relation-Ships

Dane E. Rose