Consciously Playing the Game

Each of us has relationship programs with predefined parameters to relate. When another invites us to relate to them, it is often an invitation to a play a character in a pre-written script.

When a person has spent enough time inside their own scripts they can fairly accurately predict and communicate the role they are inviting you to play. This is extremely helpful in knowing what you are saying yes and no to, but offers little freedom for anyone. It is only when a person has not only explored and come to know the roles they play, but also met h and come to be comfortable being the author of the script, that freedom becomes exponentially available. Two conscious authors can confidently create any relationship on any dimension in which they possess awareness. This is true creativity!

This is also a big area for trickster energy in new age circles. When you are really conscious of the author who wrote the script you will know it because the script you have written will appear to both make sense and be necessary. Every script makes sense and is necessary until another script is written that can respond to the old needs in more effective ways.

Action: Pick partners that at least know the parameters of their current scripts. If they don’t know what you are talking about, they don’t get it. If you are already in relationship, consider a conversation to articulate the script you are both currently playing out. What are the main themes and sub-plots of the script? What is the entertainment values from a director's point of view?

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Cresting the Waves:

A guide to sailing through life on

Relation-Ships

Dane E. Rose