Accessing Love
Love’s dimension can be accessed through several doors. I had a girlfriend who allowed herself to join me there through the portal of her body, while her mind rejected large portions of who I am. This was very painful to me and lead me to seek to spend most of my time with her physically, giving me the experience of being fully loved. If it were up to her mind she would not have been with me. Her body loved me so completely, so beautifully and deeply that I stayed to be loved by that self.
Action: Recognize the parts of you and your partner that can deeply love one another and focus your attention on those. There are many parts within each of us that do not love one another. Total acceptance is an unattainable ideal to aspire to as a human.
Cresting the Waves:
A guide to sailing through life on
Relation-Ships
Dane E. Rose