The Middle

• Is the pace of this relationship right for me at this time?
  

• Are my boundaries and our agreements being respectfully honored?
  

• Do I or my partner know what we want or what we are doing?
  

• Is my focus right now more on what I am afraid of or where we can go right now?
  

• What are three areas I could consciously grow in this relationship right now, regardless of my partner's cooperation?
  

• Do I feel safe to go deeper right now? If not, what could I do to co-create more of that safety with my partner through agreements and discussion?
  

• Is this relationship drawing out the best in me?
  

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Cresting the Waves:

A guide to sailing through life on

Relation-Ships

Dane E. Rose